On Transitions

No matter how great a situation, relationship or opportunity may be in the beginning, there often comes a time when we must pursue a new path in order to evolve and become our best self. More so, if it was not great to begin with. Or it started well and somewhere along the line, it ceased to be the great situation, relationship or opportunity it once was.
 

Transitions are not always peaceful and easy to make. More often, especially in negative situations, letting go and leaving things behind can be difficult. Emotions are on a high, our spirits are low, we may feel stuck, or we maybe a bit afraid that by leaving the present situation we might get worse off in the future.

 
It becomes essential to determine whether ending the situation, relationship or opportunity would be the right course of action. It is also elemental to examine and look into ourselves; and ask “Would I feel more "ME" by staying or leaving the situation?”

It is never an easy process. But it is doable.
 
As the “Godfather and the Mafias” would have it; we “go to the mattresses”. We prepare for the battle and adopt our warlike stance guided by principles of respect, authenticity, and service.
 

Four things to consider:

1. Acknowledge the good that has come from the situation, relationship or opportunity; and accept the good that can come from evolving in a new direction.
 
2. Find yourself an outcome that allows you to feel most authentic, honest or true.

 

 

3. Collaborate your decision honestly and respectfully. (This usually is not easy...as in most cases, even impossible at the very moment things are brewing.) 

4. Give in your best effort as you prepare to leave.

And in most circumstances – especially those difficult ones, we can bring the most closure and peace